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Recent Posts

Broken Record

More thoughts and reflections.
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WHAT IS A WOMAN?

A Gwen Tuesday.
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“I Love Your Makeup, Ma’am”

All day Kandi! Originally posted September 1, 2021.
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Hairspray!

Just another example of Dee's amazing friendships! Originally posted May 22, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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WHAT IS A WOMAN?

A Gwen Tuesday.
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SEDUCTIVE, PERSUASIVE, DESTRUCTIVE

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Trans Poker: Rewriting the Hand of Identity

Bonus Gwen!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Hairspray!

Just another example of Dee's amazing friendships! Originally posted May 22, 2022.
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Fan Girl

Look who's back?
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!