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Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

The Week’s Activities

Just another great day out and being myself! Originally posted September 29, 2021.
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Dee Does Durham Redux–Part 2

The dramatic conclusion!
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THE TIME I WAS BURIED ALIVE!

Story time!
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Travelogue – Erie Day 2

Day Two! Originally posted December 1, 2021.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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THE TIME I WAS BURIED ALIVE!

Story time!
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A Trans Father’s Love Letter

Beautiful....
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CAN WE EMULATE “THE G.O.A.T.?

Learn here!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee Does Durham Redux–Part 2

The dramatic conclusion!
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Dee Does Durham Redux–Part 1

Lookee who stopped by!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Travel

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Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!