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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Travelogue – Gulfport, MS Day Three: Flying Pretty….Ugly

The longest day of my life......
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Material Girl

You know of my love of '80's music...not!
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A Grand Day Out

By Amanda J.
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Both Ends Burning

Great, great fun with my bestie!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THE PRICE OF LIBERATION FROM THE COMFORTABLE

Guess who?
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The word of the day: LONELY 😔

Real.
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TURNING “WHAT IF” INTO “WATCH ME”

We continue to share Gwen's journey...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Girls Day Out Means A Girl Day Out–Part 2

Gettin' at it again!
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Girls Day Out Means a Girl Day Out

Back in the highlife again!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Miracles

If only you believe like I believe, baby
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Stuff Is Messed Up

My walking song...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!