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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

An American Girl

Been a bit, but she's back!
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It’s Not Easy Being Green

Dee even makes me tired from all that she does! Originally posted May 7, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Three

Fun!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!