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Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Just What I Needed

Quite literally, just what I needed.
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Bloodbuzz Ohio

Now what's she up to??? Originally posted October 8, 2022.
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A Fresh Take on “The Wizard of Oz”

A Journey of Self-Discovery
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Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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A Fresh Take on “The Wizard of Oz”

A Journey of Self-Discovery
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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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When Dysphoria Hits, Don’t Ask “Why” — Ask This Instead…

A Dysphoria Hacks tactical training...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Bloodbuzz Ohio

Now what's she up to??? Originally posted October 8, 2022.
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Closing Out 2025

Last look back at the year that was.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Just What I Needed

Quite literally, just what I needed.
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Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!