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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Gwen’s Saturday

It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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Gwen and Again and Again

Another Saturday triple treat!
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A Gwen and A Gwen and A Gwen

Triple the fun!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

(Not) Dressing My Age

Lessons from Dee...
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WWYWTW*

You'll find out what that means, read on! Originally posted March 26, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

(Not) Dressing My Age

Lessons from Dee...
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Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!