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It’s a Lonely World

By Amanda J.
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I Wish

"Just don't tell, and I'll give you anything you want in this whole wide world"
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Dee-isms

😊 Originally posted March 12, 2023.
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Four Gwens for the Fourth!

Happy Independence Day!
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    Four Gwens for the Fourth!

    Happy Independence Day!
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    Double Gwen

    More to think about.
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    Gwen Squared

    Bonus post Saturday!
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    Dee-isms

    😊 Originally posted March 12, 2023.
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    Steppin’ Out

    Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    Terri and I

    Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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    Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

    I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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    Marilyn Shoot 2021

    Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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    Five Skirts

    This is a straight picture post.
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    Travel

    Read our travel diaries

    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    Rules of The Road

    We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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    Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

    Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

    Hope you like...
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    THE UGLY TRUTH

    If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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    The Cat’s Out of The Bag

    More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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    The Odd Couple

    If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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    This is Hard

    Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!