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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

My Lucky Thirteen

It's Mandy Tuesday!
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Love is Alive

The Dream Weaver
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Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Gwen’s Saturday

It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

Some at-home fun!
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Girls on Film

Pose!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

Some at-home fun!
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(Not) Dressing My Age

Lessons from Dee...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!