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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

The Wisdom of Amanda

Originally posted April 6, 2023.
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Eminence Front

Come and join the party, dressed to kill!
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Tootsie

Another Dee-lightful experience! Originally posted June 11, 2023.
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MONOLITH OF MONSTERS + (1×2)

Saturday thoughts.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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MONOLITH OF MONSTERS + (1×2)

Saturday thoughts.
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THE DULL ACHE THAT NEVER GOES AWAY + 1 + 1

Gwenagain...
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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Tootsie

Another Dee-lightful experience! Originally posted June 11, 2023.
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Running Man

Identities have been changed to protect the innocent.... Originally posted June 25, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Black & White Version

Our noir version...
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How Long

...has this been going on.
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Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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Smoking Gun

Steppin' up my game?
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!