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Recent Posts

Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Once Bitten, Twice Shy

Two, two photoshoots in one (post)!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

Read on...
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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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Tar Heel Sun-Dee

Dee continues sharing her wonderful NC trip! Originally posted May 28, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Once Bitten, Twice Shy

Two, two photoshoots in one (post)!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part One

Living my life...
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!