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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

The Genesis of Kandi! Part 1

Let's go back in time, before COVID, before the Kandi you know was just feeling her oats....
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Catch These Fists

Shouting out a great song which has nothing to do with this day.
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The Dark Clouds Are Looming

Originally posted July 19, 2022.
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Don’t Be Stoopid

An important message!
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An American Girl

Been a bit, but she's back!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!